15 Panduan Mengembangkan Sifat Sabar

by wazy on February 2, 2011 · 15 comments

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Assalamualaikum Semua

Kali ni nak berkongsi tentang 15 Panduan Mengembangkan Sifat Sabar.Ramai yang dah tahu bahawa sifat penyabar atau sabar tu banyak kebaikannya tak kira la kita berada di pelbagai situasi sama ada di rumah ataupun ditempat kerja.

15 Panduan Mengembangkan Sifat Sabar

1.  Jangan terlalu memikirkan mengenai masalah, sakit kepala dan kesakitan serta mengharapkan simpati dan perhatian daripada orang lain.

2.  Terimalah hakikat bahawa lebih banyak perhatian yang anda berikan kepada perkara-perkara ini lebih teruklah keadaan anda nanti. Semua perkara akan menjadi kelam kabut dan hati anda terluka dan berasa tidak sabar kerana orang lain tidak ambil peduli.

3.  Jangan fikir anda harus menunjuk kepada orang lain bahawa anda berada dalam keadaan yang betul dan dapat memenangi hati mereka dalam setiap perkara yang anda lakukan.

4.  Terimalah hakikat betapa sukarnya untuk menyenangkan hati setiap orang pada setiap masa. Pastikan bahawa anda bersikap adil dan wajar dan biarkan masa menentukannya.

5.  Jangan fikir anda mengetahui benar apa yang terbaik untuk orang lain.

6.  Terimalah hakikat sementara anda boleh terus cuba memujuk, tetapi akan menimbulkan kesusahan untuk mengharapkan mereka melakukan apa yang anda hendakkan. Ini tentunya mencetuskan ketidaksabaran ke atas kedua-dua pihak.

7.  Jangan memikirkan bahawa kerana terdapat mereka yang tidak bersetuju dengan anda, mereka bersifat tidak wajar terhadap anda.

8. Terimalah hakikat bahawa manusia berhak kepada pandangan yang dikemukakan. Anda mengharapkan mereka membenarkan anda mendapat hak yang sama itu.

9.  Jangan fikirkan mengenai semua perkara buruk yang akan berlaku ke atas diri anda.

10. Terimalah keadaan bahawa setiap orang mempunyai masa rehatnya. Cuba lihat di luar daripada diri anda.

11. Bersimpati terhadap orang lain akan membantu anda bersifat lebih sabar.

12. Jangan fikirkan bahawa sifat yang tidak menentu itu (moodiness) dalam diri seseorang adalah terlalu penting.

13. Terimalah hakikat kadangkala diri kita yang baik inipun boleh mengalami sifat berubah-ubah atau tidak menentu itu. Hadapilah dengan tenang dan cubalah kawal sifat berubah-rubah diri anda itu.

14. Jangan fikir bahawa cita-clta dan apa yang anda kehendaki adalah terlalu penting.

15. Terimalah hakikat bahawa wujudnya kesulitan jika terlalu mengharapkan sesuatu perkara dalam hidup, terhadap diri anda dan orang lain. Jika anda terlalu berharap, kedukaan dan kekecewaan akan menjadikan anda sedih dan berkelakuan hilang sabar.

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